Sorry about the rant...just wanted to fill a post (haha).
So for the holidays we are headed to Escondido to see my family for Christmas and then off to Long Beach for the Tsunami Student Conference. This month just flies by with Christmas parties (2 adult parties, 1 youth Party, 1 children's party, 1 office party (Michelle's), not to mention the school things, Scouts, parade, the list goes on.) Michelle and I were asked just this Tuesday if we would lead a couple Hot Topics at the Tsunami Conference the 27th. We have taught one entitled "Balancing Marriage and Ministry" before and I was pondering it again. That is until I notice my already frazzled wife getting more frazzled (if possible). Then God hit me with a 2x4. "Hey dummy, do you really think it would be good to lead a seminar on balancing your marriage and ministry at the expense of your wife's saneness?" Okay, so it wasn't audible, but I got the point. I am trying to not take on more ministry things at the expense of my family. When all is said and done, they are more Important to me than the ministry I am called to. You can agree or disagree with me (comment if you want), but I believe I am to honor God first in my relationship to Him, then my family, then my "Job" (ministry). Fortunately I have a pastor that agrees with me. So we are doing Tsunami with our students, but we are going as a family and spending some quality time together while we are there.
It is a busy time indeed, but don't forget to take time out to remember the real meaning of Christmas, and also spend time with the family.
3 comments:
I applaud you putting your family first! I think those in the ministry fall prey to false expectations or the need to please people. Your wife and family will thank you in the long run, give yourself a pat on the back! I found a cool video by the Kimmels (marriage and family experts)
http://www.iquestions.com/video/view/617 that discusses exactly what you are talking about here, I hope you find it meaningful. Blessings to you!
Laura
Thanks for the comment Laura. Always good to have support and encouragement. I will check out the video.
Bob
Oh! First! Happy Birthday! I saw a note somewhere... ehehehe.
And you know, here in Oregon they're yelling "Merry Christmas!" all over the place including Wal-Mart. Ehehehe. Kind of nice.
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